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The Golden Hour 🍑 Peach + Basil Mocktail
This one is named for the hour most people pour the drink it's replacing. The hour before dinner when the day starts to decompress and a drink feels like the punctuation mark between work and evening. The Golden Hour.
Jul 124 min read


If Your Sleep Got Worse in Your 30s or 40s, It's Probably Not a Sleep Problem.
If you are a woman in your 30s or 40s and your sleep has changed in ways that conventional sleep advice hasn’t fixed, it is probably not a sleep problem. It is a hormone problem disguised as a sleep problem.
Jul 97 min read


The "Revenge Bedtime Procrastination" Loop Is Destroying ADHD Adults — And It Has Nothing To Do With Discipline
It is 11:47pm. You are exhausted. You know you have to be up early. You have known this for the past two hours. And yet here you are, phone in hand, watching one more video, reading one more thread, doing one more thing that has nothing to do with sleeping.
Jul 88 min read


The Tropic Sting 🌶️
Passion fruit hits first — intensely tart, tropical, bright. Then the Thai chili builds behind it. A slow heat that arrives after the fruit and doesn't leave.
Jul 53 min read


You Don't Have To Pop A Stimulant: Non-Medication Options For Managing ADHD
What I am offering here is a collection of evidence-based, non-medication interventions that either work alongside whatever treatment plan you already have, or serve as a starting point for people who cannot or do not want to use stimulants.
Jun 3010 min read


The Fourth Fizz 🎆
If you're four days into Dry July and staring down a cookout this weekend, this is your drink. It looks like a party, it tastes genuinely good, and it's built with ingredients that are actually doing something useful for your body while everyone else is on their third beer.
Jun 283 min read


Your Favorite Banking App Is Not a Bank — It's an FDIC Insurance Risk
The term "neobank" refers to a financial technology company that offers banking-like services — checking accounts, debit cards, savings products, money transfers — without holding a bank charter. Neobank = NOT A BANK.
Jun 249 min read


The Botanist (Non-Alcoholic) 🍋🟩
A crisp, herbal non-alcoholic remake of a classic bar cocktail — muddled cucumber, mint, and basil, fresh lime, and a ginger syrup standing in for the gin. The perfect date-night mocktail.
Jun 212 min read


Fact or Fiction? Peptide Edition: The TikTok Trend That Could Actually Hurt You
A recent investigation found more than 400 videos promoting peptide injections across TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube in a single month, with over 14 million combined views.
Jun 209 min read


Watermelon Tajín Spritz 🍉
This one's become my go-to sober curious drink for summer. It's fresh, a little tart, a little spicy from the Tajín rim, and genuinely tastes like a grown-up watermelon Fresca — no alcohol, no added sugar beyond what's naturally in the fruit.
Jun 142 min read


Your ADHD Brain Has a Superpower, but that Superpower Has a Dark Side
Adults with ADHD who recognize and actively use their strengths — creativity, humor, hyperfocus — report significantly better wellbeing, quality of life, and fewer mental health symptoms.
Jun 118 min read


The Resume Black Hole Is Real. Stanford Just Proved It.
Only about 30% of resumes pass the ATS check. Seventy percent — including resumes from qualified, experienced, capable candidates — never reach a human being.
Jun 712 min read


Do You Feel Burnt Out? You Might Be Running on Broken Hormones.
Your hormones are like an orchestra — each section playing a part in your energy, metabolism, mood, and sleep. When one instrument is out of tune (usually cortisol), the entire symphony starts to sound off.
Jun 310 min read


The ADHD Tax Is Real. Here's How Much It's Actually Costing You.
The ADHD tax isn't one thing. It's a thousand small things, compounding over time, adding up to a number that will make you feel things when you finally look at it.
Jun 111 min read


Fact or Fiction? AI Edition: Calling Out the Misinformation That's Actually Costing You Money
Let's be honest about what "free" actually means in the AI space. Nothing that costs this much to run is truly free — someone is always paying, and if it isn't you with a subscription fee, it's you with something else.
May 3111 min read


Gender Pay Gap 2026: How to Research, Negotiate, and Get Paid What You're Worth
The gender pay gap represents $1.1 trillion in lost earnings for women every single year. That is not a number that fixes itself. It fixes when women know their worth, document their value, and ask for what they've earned — out loud, with evidence, without apology.
May 3012 min read


7 Claude Prompts That Turn Your ADHD Brain Into An Actual Productivity Machine
Let's start with something important. There is a viral Instagram carousel going around right now claiming that Claude has a built-in feature called "ADHD Executive Function Mode." It has 162,000 likes. It has been shared 226,000 times. And it is not true.
There is no such feature. Claude does not have a secret ADHD mode. What the carousel is actually describing — buried under the misleading headline — are prompt techniques.
May 288 min read


Fact or Fiction? Body Edition: We're Calling Out TikTok's Biggest Health Hacks
Welcome to the first installment of what is going to be a recurring series on this blog, because the misinformation machine never sleeps and frankly neither do I.
Here's the premise: social media — specifically TikTok and Instagram — has become one of the most powerful health communication platforms in the world. Social media influencers with no medical training are pushing extreme diets, detox teas, DIY hormone resets, and viral wellness hacks to millions of followers with
May 2613 min read


Why I Ate So Much Sour Candy I Dissolved My Own Taste Buds (And What That Actually Says About Anxiety)
I want to tell you about a phase of my life where I was going through a bag of Toxic Waste hard candy — the ones that come in a little yellow barrel and are so aggressively sour they should come with a liability waiver — fast enough that I genuinely damaged the roof of my mouth. Disintegrated my taste buds. Had to take a break from solid food for a few days. That kind of damage.
May 249 min read


The Sauna Post: Why Your Protocol Probably Needs A Female Edit
The female protocol for sauna use is not the same as the male protocol, and most of what goes viral about heat therapy was developed on male bodies in male-dominated research environments. Sound familiar? If you've read my biohacking post on the male data problem, you already know this is a pattern in wellness research, not an anomaly. So I went looking for what the female-specific research actually says. Here's what I found.
May 239 min read
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